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4 Things Nobody Tells You About Life After Divorce

Posted on in Divorce

Hinsdale divorce lawyerAside from the death of a loved one, getting a divorce is the most stressful event that is likely to happen in a person’s life. This is because a divorce encompasses almost everything in your life, from where you live and how much time you spend with your children, to your monthly expenses and tax implications. The process of divorcing your spouse is not just a legal one -- it is as much an emotional process as it is anything else. While people may tell you that you will be much happier after your divorce is over, there are plenty of realities that nobody really talks about. Here are a few things that you may not be prepared for when it comes to life after your Illinois divorce:

  1. You Will Probably Feel a Loss, Even if You Initiated the Divorce

Getting a divorce is a huge change in your life. Even if you were the one who wanted the divorce because you believed that your marriage had broken down beyond repair, you will still probably feel a mix of emotions, such as sadness, anxiety, and loss. Getting a divorce is a major life transition, and you not only lose your spouse as a life partner, but you may also lose your relationships with others who are associated with your spouse, such as their family and friends. Adjusting to this loss can take time.

  1. You Might Get Mixed Reactions From Family and Friends

Unfortunately, a divorce can bring out the worst in people, including your loved ones. You may find that some people in your family treat you differently, and you may also find that some of the people that you considered to be your friends will not be there for you when you need them. On the flip side, you may also find that some people that you were never really close to before may step forward and offer the love and support that you need.

  1. Healing Will Not Happen Overnight

The healing process does not start instantly. In fact, you may find that it does not start until the divorce has been finalized, after which you can put all of the stress and emotional turmoil behind you. Even then, you will not be healed after a day, a week, or even a month. It could take years for you to make a full emotional recovery from your divorce. It is important to realize that this is okay, and healing after a divorce is a marathon, not a sprint.

  1. Planning For Post-Divorce Life Is Easier With Help From a DuPage County Divorce Lawyer

There are so many moving parts to a divorce that it can be nearly impossible to keep all of your ducks in a row by yourself. If you are planning to get a divorce, or if you have already begun the divorce process, you should talk with an Elmhurst, IL divorce attorney. At Wakenight & Associates, P.C., we have more than 95 years of combined legal experience, and we can help you out throughout every step of your divorce. To schedule a free consultation, call our office today at 630-852-9700.




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